When you are focused on ‘raising their vibration’, what are you really trying to do?
Why would you choose to do that rather than asking, out loud, “How can I help?”
I ask this because the judgment behind someone’s (or a situation’s) ‘vibration’ not being what you think it should and attempts to manipulate it to your own desire or definition of ‘good’ seems to be more prevalent in some ‘spiritual’ circles these days.
It’s so simple and direct to let someone know you are available to help if they need or want it. It’s an act of kindness and love. The answer you receive may be “No.”. To honor and respect that is also an act of kindness and love.
To silently make their situation a reflection of your judgment isn’t.